figured out how to use a system to get my wife's instinct and mine to communicate… message bus via github and a url
Recipe No. 6
Put Two Household Agents on a Shared Bus
Serves Couples or small teams with more than one AI
Connect his and his wife's assistants through a GitHub + URL message bus; also push chats and voice notes into git.
You will need
Method
Agree what can be shared (calendar, shopping) vs never (health, money details).
Stand up a simple bus: messages as markdown files with to/from/id.
Teach each agent to poll and reply only when addressed.
Keep a human-readable log so you can audit what the AIs asked each other.